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UK home education guides

Around 126,000 children in England are now educated at home, and that number rose 13% in a single year. Almost every family arrives at it the same way: a long stretch of reading at 11pm, trying to work out what is allowed, what a day looks like, and what it costs.

These are the notes from two years of that reading, written plainly. Deregistering, replying to the council, socialisation, exams, money, and the part nobody warns you about: deciding what your child does every Monday for the next thirty-six weeks.

Your first home education lesson: what to do on day one

The first morning sets the shape of everything that follows. Most parents get it backwards.

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Local authority home education powers: what they can ask

All seven are written into law. Number 4 is the one they count on parents never checking.

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Home education and socialisation: the honest answer

All eight are true. All eight are boring to prove. Number 5 gets teachers to nod off the record.

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School hours vs home education hours: the real comparison

Parents who do them stop waiting for September. Sum #3 made me start building.

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Home education UK: 10 things schools do not tell you

All ten are true. All ten are checkable. Number 9 is the one they'd hate most.

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Home education burnout: 5 causes and how to fix them

Families rarely quit home ed because of the child. They quit because the parent runs dry. Here's what drains the tank — and the fixes.

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What is a morning basket, and how to start one

The twenty-minute ritual home-ed families swear by — and why it works better than a timetable.

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Which school year is my child in? UK year groups by age

School sorts kids by birthday. Home ed lets you sort by the child. Here's how to pick a starting point.

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GCSEs when home educated: how it actually works in the UK

'But what about GCSEs?' — the question every home-ed family gets. Here's what's actually true.

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Deregistering from school: 7 things nobody tells you

Deregistration is an administrative act. The fear around it is real, but almost none of it comes from the process itself.

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The Children Not in School register explained, plainly

The register has produced more misinformation than any other topic in UK home education.

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The 4 stages of deschooling, and how long each takes

Every home-ed family walks the same road to the decision. See where you're standing.

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Can you take your child out of school mid-year? Yes — here is how

The school year doesn't decide when enough is enough. These are the six I see over and over.

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How many children are home educated in England?

That's the Department for Education's own estimate — up 13% in a single year. Here's what's driving it.

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Home educating as a dad: making it work around a job

The mums get the Instagram accounts. The dads get this. Tag yourself — I'll go first.

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A school Monday vs a home education Monday, compared

One child. Two versions of the same day, pinned side by side. Spot the difference.

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How to plan a home education curriculum without burning out

The difference between calm home ed and 11pm chaos is rarely the child. It's the plan.

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How much does home education cost in the UK?

The worry that stops more families than the law ever does. Let's answer it honestly — costs and all.

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Why home education takes less time than a school day

The honest before-and-after of bringing learning home — hour by hour, mood by mood.

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How to reply to your local authority about home education

After you deregister, the local authority may make informal enquiries. Here's the calm way through. (England.)

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Free home education resources in the UK, actually worth using

Before you buy anything: the free shelf is better than most paid ones.

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How long should home education take each day?

The quiet secret of calm home-ed days: lessons that end before anyone wants them to.

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How to tell the school you are home educating

It's simpler than it feels — if you remember whose decision it is. (England, mainstream school.)

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Thinking about home education but not sure you can do it

My daughter is three. I started researching her education early — and couldn't stop.

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Answering the questions relatives ask about home education

Mention home ed once and the questions arrive on schedule. Here are the calm answers.

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5 signs school is not working for your child

Not the newsletter version — the signs parents actually compare at the school gate.

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Your first week of home education: a day-by-day plan

The week's only job is settling in. Here's a plan you can steal day by day.

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Home education UK: 7 things worth knowing before you start

From a dad two years deep in the research — before my daughter even starts school.

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Types of home educator: which approach suits your family?

Two years of lurking in UK home-ed groups says every family lands in one of these four camps.

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What a home education day actually looks like, hour by hour

Not the Instagram version — a normal Tuesday, hour by hour, in a normal UK house.

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Your first month of home education: do this, not that

The month that decides whether it sticks — and the mistakes almost everyone makes in it.

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How to deregister your child from school in England

England, mainstream school. It's simpler than anyone tells you — here's the whole process.

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The reading is the easy part

Every guide here ends in the same place: somebody has to decide what your child learns tomorrow, and the day after that. StudyDen is the answer I built for my own daughter — Years 1 to 6 planned out, 4,833 lessons, built on Oak National Academy.

These guides describe home education in England unless they say otherwise. Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland have their own rules, and a child at a special school follows a different process. Nothing here is legal advice.