Talking about big changes
Today I can explain why a worry can shrink when it is shared, and reply to a friend in a way that shows I understand.
A Look back3 min
- 1.
Which feeling word matches the storm on this scale? Circle the word.
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Ali needs to know which books he needs before he packs. Put these story steps in order. Write 1, 2 or 3 in each box.
- Ali feels ready to go.
- Ali packs his bag.
- Ali reads his timetable.
- 3.
In the writing cycle, which stage comes straight after drafting? Circle the word.
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B Watch me, then you4 min
Noor is nervous about her new school. Read how Ali replies. Then try two replies of your own.
Noor says: “I am worried about my new school.”
Ali looks at her and listens. He does not interrupt.
Ali says: “That sounds hard. It makes sense to feel like that.”
- 1.
Priya says: “I'm worried nobody will sit with me at lunch.” Write a reply that shows you understand.
- 2.
Sam says: “I'm excited but I'm also scared of getting lost.” Write a reply that shows you are listening.
C Your turn6 min
Read each message and circle the reply a good listener would give. Then sort the listening actions.
- 1.
Noor says: “I'm a bit scared about my new school.” Circle the reply a good listener would give.
“Don't be silly, it will be fine.”“That sounds scary. Do you want to talk about it?”“I didn't worry at all.”“Stop being scared.” - 2.
Ali says: “I can't wait to try the science lab!” Circle the reply a good listener would give.
“Science is boring.”“Me too, what are you most excited about?”“Labs are for older kids.”“Let's not talk about it.” - 3.
Zara says: “I feel nervous and excited, and I don't know why.” Circle the reply that best shows empathy.
“Nothing to be nervous about.”“Just forget about it.”“That feeling is common before a big change.”“Tell your mum to sort it out.” - 4.
Sort these actions. Write each one in the correct column.
eye contactchecking your phonenoddinginterrupting with your own storyShows active listening Does not show active listening
Say it out loud: Which reply did you choose first, and what did it do that the other replies did not?
D Spot the mistake3 min

- 1.
Write one sentence that corrects Ali.
E Think deeper4 min
- 1.
Why might “I understand” help a friend more than a list of tips? Write two reasons.